How To Take Control Of Her In Bed

Well fans, information technology'south been fashion as well long and for that, I apologize. Since we last spoke, I've had a few female friends inquire virtually what men like in bed….not similar I can speak for all men, merely I'm a guy then I put in my 2 cents….which lead to a weblog postal service.

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Ladies, this is going to be easy and fun for you lot. So much fun. Like anything worth doing, it may accept a piffling work, but less than you'd expect. Taking command sexually doesn't necessarily have to involve handcuffs, blindfolds, ropes or imperative phrases like "you've been a naughty shade-tree mechanic!" There are subtler and much more effective means to take command in the sleeping accommodation.

ane. Exist a tease
Teasing tin can be a form of domination, stimulating unlike erogenous zones, without giving in to the bodily acts gives you all the cards in the sexual deck. Playing with expectations, concrete and otherwise, puts you right in the driver's seat.

2. Be a nudist
One of my onetime friends put it best, "Never be scared to just rip all your clothes off as soon equally you lot get in the door." Nothing says "I'thou calling the shots," like deciding when, where, and how it'due south going to happen.

3. Exist on height
Seems obvious, but there'southward unlike ways to get on peak. You could just be there, kneeling, while he does that funny-looking-but-effective hip-thrust-from-beneath thing, or you could actually take control up in that location. Be a existent cowboy equally opposed to a tourist at a dude ranch…that'southward and then Texas aint it?

4. Exist restrictive
Yous can use ropes (I know someone who keeps silk ties in a drawer side by side to her bed), or cuffs, or whatever you lot can observe, but you don't really need any of that stuff. You can simply keep him from putting his hands anywhere, no restraining devices necessary.

5. Exist inventive
Be the ane to initiate unlike positions. Even if he's the one doing the work, tell him how to have you, where to put his hands, how fast or slow—like a drill instructor, but without all the anger issues and hazing.

six. Exist a geography major
Initiating sex, or only random makeout sessions, in new places is another way for y'all to exist in charge. The grocery store may not exist the sexiest place on the planet, simply a advisedly placed stroke or kiss can let him know that yous're the one who decides when it'due south sexy time.

7. Be edgeless
Like and then many other parts of relationships, communication is the primal here. If you want to work on existence in charge, work on being up front, and blunt. Cease asking, and start directing.

Practise yous similar taking control in the bedroom? How do you practice it?

Thanks for tuning in…..

BROWNLEE